He is an amiable fellow, assured of his place in the world and certain that, given enough time and effort, others can simply pull themselves up by their bootstraps.
他和善可亲,自信他在世界上占有一席之地,并确信,假以时日及努力,别人根本也可以靠自己的力量成功。
Considerate or kindly in disposition; amiable and tender.
友善的,和蔼的性情体谅的或和蔼的; 和善的,柔顺的
Do you really want to go or are you merely being amiable?